The Most Wholesome Sexpo no. 1

Picking up the legacy of the Sins, Love and Rainbows events, Revel brings you its first Most Wholesome Sexpo. (in a new, bigger, better location).

a Cuddle-first, Sex-Positive Party

Come join us for home cooked meals, good wine and premium cuddles in a wholesome queer safe space 🌈

Quick info

• Due to space reason we're capping it a 30 people
• Due to the nature of the party, this is a 21+ event
• No drugs allowed
• Please have a complete profile before applying; it will be visible only to the organizers

Schedule - 06.02.2025

• 15:00 - Preparation (for those who come to help) ⚠️
• 18:00 - Doors open 🏠
• 21:00 - Doors close ⛔️
• 22:00 - No-horny ban is lifted. 🔥 Which doesn't mean that people can suddenly get naked and start banging. It means: if the vibe is right and people are horny, things might escalate, but absolutely don't have to. And the hosts can veto the escalation.

Dress code

• whatever you're comfortable with
• casual / pajamas / kinky / banana costume / whatever
• just wear at least something until things escalate, if they do

About

Similar to the SLR events, these events are meant to be cuddly potlucks where wholesome is the keyword. Sometimes, as a consequence of the safe atmosphere that we create as queer (and poly) people, things... escalate. But that is not the goal nor what these events are about.

These events are meant to be a little bubble of reality, where you can just be and let your guard down. We look after one another, we care, we connect, we let ourselves be vulnerable.

Everyone is welcome to contribute with any (vegan!) food, snack or drink they feel like, or come as you are: panza e presenza (i.e., empty handed is perfectly fine).

There is no dress code: we don't care if it's street clothes or a kinky outfit or a banana costume. Just wear what makes you comfortable! (but there's gonna be one or more cuddle pile... so make sure to account for that or bring a change of clothes).

As always, no one will be allowed to leave without leftovers 🥡, unless you manage to finish all the food 🙃

Make sure to update your profile with dietary preferences and restrictions so we can coordinate better 📋

General rules 👩‍⚖️

Here's the usual things to keep in mind.

People

Some of us are or were romantically or sexually involved with one another. Be kind and attentive: for some people it might be a new situation.

If know no one, and you think that meeting someone else beforehand in a less crowded situation can help you make things more comfortable, reach out to us and we'll make it happen.

Latecomers

Life happens, there might be latecomers. Please make sure to make it easy for them to mingle!. However, please make sure to arrive by 21:00 at the latest.

Language

Some people might not speak German. Please stick to English so that anyone can jump into conversations 🇬🇧

Pronouns and names

Please be mindful that not everyone is cis-gender. Ask for and respect their pronouns. Never ask for their deadname. Name tags will be provided.

No unicorn hunting

You know what I'm talking about. Right?

Group sex

Should things escalate:

• be freshly tested: less than 3 months as a ballpark. Fresher if you've been naughty, older if you've been chaste.
• Check out our sex positive party vademecum
• some rooms might be marked as private (hosts only) and/or non-horny, which applies even in case of escalation unless explicitly revoked. Please respect that.